Squishy has very little to do with this post, but his expression speaks to how I felt as this went down.
(As we find out, my interview is available to stream here, so go listen to me speak very slowly. I'm clearly out of practice when it comes to adult conversation.)
I've been scrambling this afternoon trying to figure out how to listen to my interview online. It appears to have been superseded by a BYU soccer game (Too bad they can't predict when those are going to come up and make that information more widely available so poor fools like me don't get all misinformed?)
But this is the sort of punch I roll with pretty well by now. If one of my pre-earth-life objectives was to learn to be flexible and deal admirably with stress-level-whiplash, then I'm well on my way to checking that one off the list. There's not really even energy left for resentment as I emotionally shrug "well, this is consistent with my current karma," and soldier on.
Soldiering on looking like responding to a dozen texts and a few Facebook comments wondering why they can't find my interview, and me suddenly wishing I hadn't made such an announcement out of it. It's clearly not a big deal to anyone but me.
Is it ok if it's still a big deal to me though? It was the most momentum I've mustered toward taking myself and my efforts and their necessary next-steps seriously in a long time. Probably since my MA graduation over a year ago. I need the energy of considering this to be a "big deal" so that I can prioritize finding time to write that book I've had almost 2 years to write, and for which I have only a few notes and articles in a neglected email inbox folder to show.
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In the wake of the interview, though, I did find the time to re-visit several of the texts that I brought up.
Ian Bogost's 'Carpentry' - from Alien Phenomenology: This talks about a lot of the frustrations and shortcomings of creating academic writing. Especially how philosophy and criticism are in some ways diametrically opposed to creativity and creating.
Briefest of intros to Laurel Ulrich.
Rufi Thorpe's Mother Writer Monster Maid - which is a tremendous exploration of modern woman-ness and how motherhood informs absolutely everything and how that can be both good and bad and wonderful and terrible, but maybe shouldn't be assumed to always be a liability. Also - language warning, but worth it.
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I happened across this sentiment on Meg Conley's Instagram a few days ago:
"Problem 1: I may never get over how selfish it feels to spend five hours a day
writing something no one else may ever read. Problem 2: I know I'd never get
over spending those five hours doing anything else."
I have problem envy. I haven't spent 5 hours in one day writing since I was in the thick of my thesis writing, and I miss it like crazy, but I'm also in the crazy-thick of the thinnish things that are 5 small children and a too-busy husband and another debilitating pregnancy. I'm not even managing to brush my hair properly every day.
But, at least the debilitating pregnancy part has an end (in sight!) which leads to that challenging 4th trimester, which also, mercifully, ends. So by next Spring, I know I shall be an entirely different human. And if I can aggressively restock my poor body's depleted iron supply, I can have hope that that entirely different person shall be infinitely more productive, and (dare I hope?) creative, than I am today. That is placing a lot of stock in the future, but it is also something to be optimistic about. Which is not nothing.
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In the process of re-reading my thesis to prepare for this interview, I found that the appendix I had created as a blogger resource (quick read) was actually also the incredible first few steps toward outlining the book I need to write. That I had somehow forgotten how I'd compiled it, and how useful it had the potential to be for me, is kind of a cruel irony, because that was a hurdle that kept me from moving forward for a good chunk of those 2 years since. But now that I'm reacquainted with it, onward and upward and baby steps forward toward creating something useful, and then finding the best way to share it far and wide.
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